Washington Elopement Ceremony

 Uniquely Ever After: Unforgettable Elopement Ceremony Ideas with Authenticity at the Core

From twists on old traditions to completely new celebration inspiration, here are elopement ceremony ideas that are sure to make your big day sparkle.

Freedom, flexibility, and simplicity. Chances are, it was one of these characteristics that drew you into the idea of an elopement experience to celebrate your love. As you begin the elopement planning process, you will soon learn there is more to planning an elopement ceremony than you could have ever dreamed. Legal requirements, logistics planning, and incorporating authentic traditions and customs into your ceremony may have your head spinning.

If this sounds like you, I have great news. There is a way to create an elopement ceremony that checks all of the necessary boxes while remaining just as unique and beautiful as your love. Read on to discover how to incorporate radiant and reflective elopement ceremony ideas into your big day, while ensuring the operational side of elopement planning runs as smoothly as possible:

Elopement Ceremony Ideas: Embracing Legal Requirements

The truth of the matter is this: an elopement is legally binding, so there are a few legal boxes you must check to ensure your ceremony is legitimate and recognized by the government. For those rebel lovers who balk at rules and constraints, don’t skip ahead just yet! There are plenty of ways to add your own unique elopement ceremony ideas to the legal requirements.

Marriage and elopement laws differ from state to state, so make sure you fully understand the requirements where you are eloping and plan accordingly. Some of the most common legal requirements include the presence of a witness, required wait time, and the officiant’s qualifications. Consider these ideas for embracing the legal aspects of the planning process and creating elopement ceremony ideas that are entirely your own:


Does your ceremony require a witness or two? Use this as a unique opportunity to incorporate a loved one into your special day. Your witness can even have jobs outside of signing the marriage license – have them serve as a bartender, musical talent, or take part in a reading during your ceremony.

Required Wait Time

Some states require a wait time between filing the application and actually saying your “I do’s” (generally, 1-3 days).   While some look at a wait time as an added burden, I see it as an opportunity to extend your celebration and get acclimated to your environment before the big day! Rent a trendy AirBnB, explore the local food scene, or conquer the hikes you won’t get to on your wedding day.


No matter where you elope, you will be required to have an officiant who is certified to perform marriage ceremonies in your specific location. This can be a more challenging endeavor if you plan on eloping in the wilderness, or other hard-to-reach locations. But don’t let this requirement hold you back! There are officiants out there (like yours truly) who specialize in following you up mountains and across streams to ensure you are getting married in the location you’ve always dreamed of.

Elopement Ceremony Ideas: Creating an Authentic Schedule for Your Elopement

Whether you love the nuts and bolts of planning, or would rather leave the nitty gritty details to someone else, there are intentional ways you can make even the planning and logistical side of eloping authentic to you and your love story. From timelines to packing lists, the goal is to make planning decisions  that have your style at the center:

Create an Attainable Timeline

Is efficiency the name of your game? Or would you prefer to stop and smell the wildflowers on your big day? While some couples thrive in a jam-packed environment, others may feel stressed or overwhelmed when there is too much to accomplish. Take note of your preferences, and plan your timeline and schedule accordingly.

Develop Your Unique Packing List

Strategic packing is a must, no matter your style of elopement… So why not add your own personal flair? From unique style choices that allow your individuality to shine through, to gear you need for the adventure elopement that lies ahead, you are going to make sure you check that elopement packing list twice. (Pro Tip: Do your elopement ceremony ideas require special props? Make sure you add them to the list!)  

Consult with an Elopement Planner

This could be the number one way to bring authenticity into your elopement planning process; get an elopement planner to help you out with logistics. A planner can help you develop a general flow for an elopement ceremony, plan for weather and road closures, and make sure your vendors are locked down, so you can worry about the important stuff (like adding the fun elopement ceremony ideas to your special day.)

Elopement Ceremony Ideas: Unique Twists on Traditional Customs

My favorite part of any elopement location is always the ceremony. The emotion, passion, and personality of each partner tend to shine through, and those who witness the event are transported not only to who the couple is today, but the future they are building together. Here are a few ways wedding traditions can be incorporated into a ceremony..with a unique twist that allows the couple’s unique love story to unfold.


Whether you fancy yourself a brilliant writer or not, rest assured that personalized vows will forever be cherished by your partner because they come from the heart. There are a wide variety of ways to make the vows uniquely yours, but here are a few good ways to start:

  • Retell a favorite memory of you and your partner
  • Describe how you met from your unique point of view
  • Relive a funny moment
  • Recite, sing, (or even perform!) a favorite song
  • Decide on a format to follow for both you and a partner (such as a Haiku format, limerick, or another form of creative prose.)

First Kiss

Can’t wait to have a first kiss as a married couple, but want to stray away from cliche? Consider these elopement ceremony ideas that bring the focus back on your personality while still reflecting the tradition of a first kiss:

  • Add a dip (and make sure it is caught on camera!)
  • Follow your first kiss with a waterfall plunge or a dunk in the ocean
  • Bring in a champagne (or IPA!)  toast after your first kiss
  • First, kisses are not your thing? What about a first spin?!

First Dance

Whether or not to integrate a first dance into your celebration is completely up to you! I have worked with couples who each picked a song they thought best described their love and then chose one song together, for a combined total of three dances. Some couples I work with elect to have no dancing at all. Choose what is most authentic to you, but if a first dance seems appealing, consider these creative ideas:

  • Choose a special “dancefloor”
  • Choose a non-traditional wedding dance, like the macarena or the chicken dance
  • If you are musically inclined, consider performing a song or serenading your partner
  • Are their cultural dances important to you or your partner’s heritage (such as Hula, Haka, or Irish dance?)  Consider performing for your partner!

Elopement Ceremony Ideas: Stunning Lesser-Known Traditions

Looking for something more “out of the box” to celebrate your love? Here you will find unique elopement ceremony ideas that could be exactly what you are looking for:

Symbolic Practices

If you prefer a wedding tradition with a more symbolic meaning, consider these lesser-known elopement ceremony ideas that symbolize a life joined together as one:

  • Handfasting or cord ceremonies to represent togetherness
  • Combining separate sand colors into one container to represent the creation of a new pattern
  • Culturally appropriate practices, such as signing a Ketubah or a henna ceremony
  • Plant a tree together to symbolize the growth of something new

Or, create unique elopement ceremony ideas that are completely your own! Determining what your values are and how they can be represented in a ritualistic or symbolic way is a powerful way to forge new traditions in your relationship.

Spiritual Practices

Spiritual practices don’t have to look like Bible readings or hymns! Consider incorporating these spiritual elopement ceremony ideas in a way that feels authentic to you and your partner:

  • Sage or smudge your ceremony location to cleanse the space before the ceremony
  • Participate in a guided or silent meditation
  • Conduct a foot washing ceremony to represent the being of service to the other
  • Pray out loud for your partner
  • Take communion together, or another religiously symbolic act

Incorporating Friends, Family, or Special Guests

Keep in mind that special guests can participate in your ceremony, even from afar!  Here are creative ways to incorporate special guests into your ceremony, whether they attend in person, via Zoom, or through pre-written letters or pre-recorded videos:

  • Have the guest sing a special song or play a musical instrument
  • Have the guests recite a poem, or Bible verse, or read a letter aloud
  • Put the special guest in charge of making a toast, giving a speech, or Facetiming family and friends who are not able to attend
  • Ask a friend or family member to officiate

Elopement Ceremony Ideas: A Sample Elopement

With your head full of brilliant elopement ceremony ideas and a heart full of inspiration, you are probably ready to jot down some of your own unique elopement ceremony ideas. But if you still need a bit of inspiration, consider this abridged elopement ceremony outline created by a couple I recently worked with. Note how they worked their own unique personalities into every part of the ceremony:


“We are gathered here at this incredibly beautiful place in Washington to witness the union of xx and yy. This is a day of great celebration, for a married life is a great blessing. You may have met at that party at the gym, but it was thanks to your German Shepherd, Hugo, for helping to finally bring you together on that special walk…”


1 Corinthians Chapter 13:4-8:

“Love is patient, love is kind.

Love does not envy, is not boastful, is not rude, is not self-seeking, is not irritable, and does not keep a record of wrongs.

Love finds no joy in unrighteousness but rejoices in the truth.

It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never ends.”


“You have chosen to write your vows, and it is with these words you express your binding promises to love, honor, and cherish one another. If you are ready to make these promises, please face each other and declare your intentions…”


“Thank you for sharing your vows! The rings you are about to place on each other’s fingers are symbols of the love you expressed. They will remind you of the vows you have just spoken, and of the eternal love that you have for one another. Place each ring on your partner’s finger while repeating after me:

“With this ring I take you, to be no other than yourself. Loving what I know of you, and trusting what I do not yet know, I will respect your integrity and have faith in your abiding love for me, through all our years, and in all that life may bring us.”


Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

“Two are better than one

because they have a good return for their labor:

If either of them falls down,

one can help the other up.

But pity anyone who falls

and has no one to help them up.

Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm.

But how can one keep warm alone?

Though one may be overpowered,

two can defend themselves.

A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.”


“I wish you the strength to be true to the vows you have made here today. May you always have the wisdom to cherish the precious love you share. May you nurture yourselves and this marriage with acceptance, understanding, cooperation, and love.”


“By the power given to me by the State of Washington, I now pronounce you partners in life. You may kiss.”

Incorporating Elopement Ceremony Ideas that are Authentically YOU

Whether you envision an elopement ceremony filled with traditional wedding customs, or if you envision bold and bright new traditions on the horizon, I am here to help you incorporate elopement ceremony ideas that reflect the day you and your partner have always imagined.  If you are looking for planning and photography support that allows you to create an elopement experience as unique as your love, let’s chat.

From timeline to creation to capturing moments of your elopement that you will never forget, I can’t wait to learn how I can support you during your special day.

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  1. Elopements are the best because of how much you can personalize them, creating a wedding experience that is authentic and true to you. Thanks for sharing!

  2. Wow!! This is such an amazing comprehensive list to really customize your elopement day. What a fantastic resource. Thank you for sharing!

  3. This is such a great guide for making your elopement day as personal as you would like! I love it! Also, all of your photos are stunning!

  4. I love couples who do things their own way, being the true selfs. it’s what weddings are about, aren’t they? These are the most memorable days!

  5. This is such a huge topic and is key for couples to personalize their day in ways they couldn’t imagine, particularly the symbolic suggestions. Thanks for sharing!